“Dwayne,”
age 15, was referred to the All Children Excel (ACE) Program
five years ago for sexually assaulting a neighborhood girl.
Although just ten years old at the time, Dwayne had already
been initiated into a gang and was selling drugs and stealing.
He was also struggling at school: failing classes, disobeying
directions, and verbally lashing out at his teachers and fellow
classmates.
As we began working with Dwayne, we realized that helping
him choose a different path would require working with his
family where poverty, criminal activity, and substance abuse
were the norm. For years, the family had been moving from
apartment to apartment and living check to check. Dwayne’s
mom bounced from one job to the next due to her habitual drug
use. His dad was in prison for armed robbery and his older
brother was heavily involved in criminal activity. Consequently,
Dwayne lacked accountability, structure, discipline, and positive
influences at home.
For Dwayne and his family, the past five years have been
filled with many challenges. Slowly but surely they have faced
it all and the progress they have made is astounding! At first,
we urged Dwayne’s mom to seek help for her addiction
before she wound up in jail, lost custody of her kids, or
worse. She voluntarily entered treatment, has been off drugs
for nearly three years, and continues to attend weekly Narcotics
Anonymous support groups. She has found steady, full-time
work and has taken a more active role in her sons' lives,
attending their school conferences and sporting events.
We got Dwayne involved in therapy and worked closely with
his teachers to ensure that he was keeping up academically,
controlling his temper, and staying out of trouble. We encouraged
Dwayne to participate in after-school sports in order to meet
new friends. These activities also helped him learn the value
of teamwork and how to deal with adversity. Finding Dwayne
a mentor gave him the opportunity to have more frequent positive
interactions with adult males.
Since becoming involved with ACE Dwayne has had no further
contact with the police or court systems. Both he and his
brother have quit dealing drugs and stealing. Dwayne has also
stayed out of trouble at school. Currently a ninth grader,
he earns mostly “As” and “Bs,” plays
junior varsity basketball, and even tutors other kids after
school.
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